Have you ever known people who just seemed to exude an aura that drew people to them?
They seemed to be friends with everyone and were always in the company of others. All the guys wanted to be him and all the girls wanted to be with him. This guy would often stun women when he made a dynamite first impression, leaving them speechless with his effortless charm and charisma.
Ever felt frustrated and thought to yourself “I want to be that guy”?
The good news is, you can be that guy, but it requires work, effort, desire, drive, and (most importantly) guidance in the right direction.
When people see others who are carefree and confident they often say to themselves “hmmpf, that guy only has high self-esteem because he’s rich/successful/whatever…”
This is totally false – The Opposite is true. He is not happy because he is successful, rather he is successful because he is happy!
These people understand that you must first be confident in yourself before you can have any meaningful success in life. Some people only discover this truth when it’s too late; others don’t discover it at all.
Whatever your circumstance, do not blame others for where you are. You must take primary responsibility for your life and where you are taking it.
You may ask, “so how does all this apply to being a successful socially?” One of the first steps to being the best that you can be is improving your social skills so that you are known as on of the “popular guys“
Quite simply, you do 2 things:
(1) You treat others as you would have them treat you (almost every religious icon in history had this as their primary tenet, and often they were persecuted for it.)
(2) When someone treats you badly and it is unjustified you let them know, not necessarily through words but with your actions, that you do not tolerate second-class behavior from others.
This is the simple formula for being a popular guy. And the good news is that if you have high self-esteem you will exude these qualities automatically!
So how do you gain self-esteem?
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